Jags,
The day when you posted that all people which start answering a question with the word "Basically" should be shot, I thought you might be a wee bit off. However, in a good sort of way! Fortunately, as I understand it, if a person is truly mentally ill they have not a clue.
I had almost $4000us squirreled away and one day my wife asked me what I intended to do with it. I replied that I was going to buy a couple of bikes and some camping gear. She told me that she had a talk with my nephew's dentist (raised by us since birth), and that was about what it would cost to get his teeth fixed. She then asked me what I thought I should to with the money. When I did not answer immediately, she called me crazy!
But, I have to admit that when the boy now smiles; I SEE TWO SERPAS (one of which could have been yours) A GREAT CAMPING KIT AND ME AND THE BOY RIDING OFF INTO THE SUNSET! Of course I could just tell the boy about the bikes and gear and the money (I know which he would choose: he is male). But that is not the right thing to do (because my wife would kill me!).
I short, I think most of us are a little out of step. And proud of it! Love your post Jags, keep it up.
Tom (who again is counting his pennies)