Looks like I laced mine up the same way that the failed flange that Ph has posted the photo of. But since that matches the lacing pattern that Rohloff showed in their photos in my manual that was current when I bought my hub in 2013, I am not going to worry about it, as I built my wheel the same way that Rohloff used for their photos..
And as Martinf mentioned, the new flange reinforcing rings likely make the potential of a flange failure much less of an issue. I added the flange rings about a year ago too, that should reduce any side stress that Rohloff cited.
My own rear derailleur bike wheels, on one I built it with the heads on the pulling spokes on the inside, another wheel on the outside. I just had to go look at the third derailleur touring wheel that I built up, heads on the outside. Manufacturers often recommend that the pulling spokes have the heads on the inside, but on a deraileur bike it can be advantageous if the spokes are laced the other way if a chain gets in between the spokes and cassette. Bottom line, I do not think it is a big deal, especially since Rohloff and SJS appear to be on different wavelengths.
Regarding local builders, I was talking to a mechanic that said he would be building up a Rohloff wheel in the near future, since my Rohloff was the only one he ever saw, he looked closely at it. And he wondered why I did not use 3 cross like he planned. I do not think I need to elaborate more on what this says about some local builders.
One more point, you already said you had your rim. If the rim nipple holes are not oriented at the sharp angle that the spokes will have from a Rohloff hub, Sapim Polyax nipples may work better than others, as they may take the different orientation slightly better. I used those for that reason.