I mainly have SON hubs, but recently fitted a DH-3N80 to my wifes's bike. Doesn't seem any different from a SON when riding, though on paper the Shimano hubs are supposed to be less efficient.
I have ridden some of the cheaper range Shimano hubs (DH-3N20, etc.) on borrowed or hire bikes, these hubs do feel relatively inefficient.
I don't worry about the DH-3N80's aluminium axle on my wife's bike - it will get gentle use and be lightly loaded.
But, like Il Padrone, I prefer steel axles for bikes that will be used hard (or abused) so have just bought a pair of DH-3N72 hubs for the visitor bikes I keep. I expect the DH-3N72s will be nearly as good as the DH-3N80, just slightly heavier.
For the same reason, I specified the Klassik version of the SON hub rather than one of the newer versions of SON when I bought my Raven Tour a couple of years ago.