i've arranged to go riding with her again, hyde pk, to regents pk then to camden. I know the way but dread having her to stop so i can catch up! Will see if 11 gear helps. I rode her road bike, its definetly faster with less effort despite her mountain bike tyres. Surely marathon plus shd be faster than cheap mountain bike tyres, cos they r smoother?
I shouldn't think so. Marathon Plus are pretty hefty tyres with that extra band of solid 5mm thick rubber all round the contact patch. It's all weight right at the rim that you have to spin up and keep moving at twice your road speed. That's going to count against you more in a stop-start environment like London than out on an open road in the country.
Whereas cheap MTB tyres are usually, despite appearances, pretty light, because materials cost.
I have Marathon on two bikes and like them, but racing tyres they ain't!
Is it possible that you aren't perhaps as fit as you think? I mean, I'm not pretending a Rohloff gearbox makes you faster, but it shouldn't make you slower either. The fraction it weighs more than a midrange derailleur system, if it does, is a red herring: the weight of the geartrain is a small fraction of the all-up weight of rider and bike, and such fractional differentials as between a Rohloff and a derailleur system will just get swamped*. The weight of the Marathon Plus will count for more in this equation, but certainly not for as much difference between reality and expectation as you describe. Without wishing to be ungallant, some beefy people are just hyperfit and it isn't all that difficult to mistake them for chubby and unfit.
Good luck on your next ride.
I ride most of the time with (younger) women, and I firmly believe, and often say, especially uphill, that a gentleman always lets the ladies go ahead, though of course on the downhill he scouts out the dangers ahead... That seems to cover all occasions.
Hobbes
*It feels faintly ludicrous even to be discussing such a fractional weight differential as if it could make a real performance difference. That we are discussing it is another symptom of the unnatural sway road racing, a tiny niche vocation, holds over all of cycling.