I've had and seen mixed service lives from UN55's and the UN5X's which just have a different cup, a lot of that depends on use and if any additional sealing has been used, but I think there's a fair degree of luck as well. I've had one last less than 10k miles and another 30k, as with all cup and cone bearings it's also surprisingly easy to overtighten, which may have been the case in the shortest lived. I don't think the sealing is great, I know people who've gone to the trouble of fitting grease ports. I've never done so, but I do offer them a little help by smothering them in marine grease. I do the same with sealed bearing BB's, my oldest IRD one is coming up to the same mileage as my longest lived UN55.
I've had the same experience with headsets, some cheaper cup and cone bearings just let the rain pass straight through, some hardly last a winter before the bearing are sliding rather than rotating. Those with bearings in a cage can be worse than loose or sealed. The FSA that Thorn use are decent, but taking extra measures to keep the water out is worth it, again I just smother them in marine grease, when new and when the forks come out for a service. I've only had one go notchy, the nice thing about sealed bearings is the ease of replacement, having three bikes on the same headsets makes having spare bearings in stock worthwhile (Actually I bought up a couple of headsets when they were on offer for less than the price of bearings!)