As the owner of a (derailleur) tandem with crossover timing chain, I have also noticed a generous disparity in chain wear, though mine is more pronounced because of the lateral chain deflection due to the rear derailleurs and resultant offset chainlines vs the inline drive of the timing chain or an IGH.
That aside, I have found greater wear at the rear is due not only to increased drive loads as Martin noted, but also due to the proximity to the driven rear wheel, made worse in wet or dusty conditions. The debris literally showers the drive chain, whereas the timing chain is clear of all that and I have come to think contamination is -- not surprisingly -- a big factor in increased chain wear. We know how dirt and debris makes the grinding paste you often reference.
You know I prefer my bicycles and their drivetrains be kept clean and my tandem gets no less care, but the cleaning differential between my tandem's two chains is next-level, on the order of 6:1, drive vs timing. To give some idea why, I'll reach back and reference my photos and posts detailing my homemade half-chainguard for my Fixie. See...
https://thorncyclesforum.co.uk/index.php?topic=13951.msg110999#msg110999...and...
https://thorncyclesforum.co.uk/index.php?topic=13951.msg111000#msg111000Though the chainline is straight (as with an IGH), you can see the glop thrown on the chainguard by the rear wheel (and the clean chain beneath it). Now, imagine a timing chain running with no deflection between two equal-size chainrings located well
ahead of the wheelspray and the difference becomes clear.
You can bet if I had a Rohloff-equipped tandem (I have the hub for it already in hand; just need to narrow the dropouts and braze on a locator for an extended torque-reaction arm), I'd equip it with a Hebie Chainglider at the rear...and probably no need to cobble one for the front where the difference in benefit would be much less profound!
One last issue Paul alluded to, and that is the size of the timing-chain gears. It is a balance between too large and risked foldover under extreme torque (seen by myself in the local tandem races that used to be held yearly) and too small, which incurs excess friction. I settled on 40t for each as the best compromise and I think the reduced articulation compared to, say, a 38 x 16 (or smaller cog) combination often seen in Rohloff final drivetrains is bound to contribute to the wear differential. Anecdotally, I've seen vastly increased bottom bracket wear on tandems I've serviced with the once-standard 26 x 26 timing chains that were default in many T/A tandem drivetrain kits back in the day. The standard address was to size-up the timing 'rings.
As an aside for overall parts life, crossover (CO) vs same-side (SS) timing chains further muddy the mix, with some folks feeling the CO evens out pedaling forces at the rear BB as both sides are loaded, while others prefer the full load to go into the right-side bearing.
FWIW, I think muck thrown from the rear wheel and larger timing rings account for most of the wear differential.
All the best, Dan.