...truly remarkable how these differing versions all more or less offer a solution!
Any discussion of gearing on bicycles has as its subtext the search for maximum forward velocity with limited human power. That's what underlies the "most of the time you should be in gear 11 on the Rohloff" dictum so often heard: the search for efficiency. Gear 11 on the Rohloff HGB is the 1 to 1 ratio, the one with the least loss, therefore the most efficient.
That matters to racers, or old racers who can give us the URL for the relevant efficiency tables from memory. But a Rohloff is a bit heavy for racers...
So I would say what matters on the Rohloff isn't strict adherence to wisdom arising from racing, but what suits your age, your health, your accustomed cadence, and your knees best, as long as your most common gear is somewhere near 11, say 10, or 12, 13, 14, more gears higher than 11 because these overdrive ratios will wear the Rohloff less than even gear 11, whereas you don't want to go lower than 10 as your most-used gear for fear of wearing the hub faster. (Actually, I think that, with the Rohloff in particular, that's probably a nicety too far on an HGB of its known longevity, and gear 9 will also be all right, but don't blame me if you have to buy a new Rohloff before your 104th birthday.)
My own original Rohloff setup was 38x16, the 16 being the sprocket that comes on the Rohloff from the factory (and a very good choice too, if you ask me, though I ordered a 17T sprocket as well just to be certain), and the 38 calculated not by reference to gear 11 but to the lowest gear on which with my cadence I can keep my balance. This was necessitated by the practical consideration that my wife wanted to live up the steepest hill in town just when I was about to go in for heart surgery. Fortunately this worked out as gear 11 on the flat once I recovered. In fact, I recovered so well that I was eventually happy with a bigger chainring, which actually put me up into gears 12 and 13, and now, several years later, I still need the lowest gear (now a couple of gear inches higher but no matter) for getting up the hill below the house but I storm around the flat bits (not too many on which a bicyclist can relax) of my countryside in overdrive gear 14. Of course, that also means that I cruise downhill, catching my breath, but there's nothing wrong with that. Overall, it's a smoother ride in the overdrive gears, which helps if you knees are getting a bit sensitive.
So, as you've observed of the advice from experienced tourers, there isn't a fixed "best" point, but a range of suitable options. Choice is good!
So, I'd say, fit what you have or can get delivered, try it, and if it works for you, you can always afterwards blow up a storm of mathematics to justify your choice, or you may take the view that it suits you fine, you're the guy who paid for it, and that's that.