Hi PH,
Yes i did of course, i have loosed stem and Bar T extension before tightening.
It's strange because i bought my bike almost new (2500 miles), and the lateral movement was existing..
OK, though you saying you've tightened the screw strongly shows something isn't right. The pre load of the bearings doesn't need the screw to be very tight, so it seems to be something else happening when you turn the screw. Two possibilities I can think of:
The stem or spacer above it is not higher than the steerer, take the top cap off with the stem clamped tight, there should be a gap of a few mm
The star nut is not far enough down the steerer and the screw/bolt has come to the end of it's thread before exerting enough force.
In either case adding a spacer above or below the stem will cure it.
My apologies if I'm stating the obvious, sometimes the answers are obvious to everyone but ourselves, happens to me all the time...