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Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« on: September 12, 2015, 05:00:23 AM »
Hi All,

The world shifted for me today, and became a little harder for awhile.

The Thorn Forum has lost a loyal but quiet member, my father Jack (membername jpine), passed at age 97 due to Alzheimer's, failing kidneys, and a leaky heart valve. Said he didn't want a funeral 'cos he had other places to be.

Named "Daddy" by my sister a decade before my arrival, he answered to nothing else and became "Daddy Boy" to my "Danny Boy", a traditional song he loved and played and a touchstone to his heritage. We were always close.

Bound to a desk job for over 30 years, he retired at age 63, early in my university studies. He reveled in his newfound hobby of bicycle touring and we took many rides together into the rugged, remote backcountry of Oregon's wilderness, including the Coast Range, the Calapooyas, and the Cascade mountain range. He was always game for a ride and put over 13,000 miles on his first tourer before switching to another with even lower gearing (I custom-made the compact crankset and modified the derailleurs to help him up the hills -- treachery and cunning over youth and agility, he said).

Father, buddy, touring partner, we enjoyed many of the same things and shared a passion for anything with wheels, cycling, camping, touring, custom gearing, and computers. He loved his, and spent the better part of his later days online, enjoying activities here. He knew of you all and cared a great deal about how you fared, following tales of mechanical bafflement and tours alike -- "Almost as good as going myself", he said, living his later adventures vicariously.

We did the last of the real adventures together on the eve of his 74th birthday, when we toured the alpine slopes of Oregon's Diamond Peak at well over a mile high. He had a fall that took out three ribs in an area so remote, steep, and heavily forested a helicopter couldn't have landed even if we'd been able to call one. In testimony to his grit, he rode another 35 miles on logging roads, dropping 2500 vertical feet till we could reach a fishing camp the day before it closed for the season. A lucky accident, as the woods were closed to wildfire the next day. Despite the early end and injuries, this remained "the best tour" in his retellings and shows how game he was for Adventure. He supported my own cycling Adventures without fail.

Alas, he's departed on one last tour, pushed on ahead to make camp and set up the tents, fluff the bags, and get the stove warmed up for dinner. I'll be there eventually, but have a few last roads to explore before I arrive to join him.

Take care, Daddy Jack; 'love you dearly.

All the best,

Dan.

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #1 on: September 12, 2015, 05:30:31 AM »
Our deepest condolences Dan.

Love

Andy & Marina


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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2015, 05:53:31 AM »
Condolences to you and your family, Dan. I felt I knew Jack a little, if at secondhand from your reports, and enjoyed him hugely.

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2015, 07:04:25 AM »
My sincere condolences, Dan, to you and all his family and friends. He is off on his next adventure, may he rest in peace.
Best,
Iain.

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2015, 08:10:13 AM »
best wishes Dan

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #5 on: September 12, 2015, 08:29:27 AM »
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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #6 on: September 12, 2015, 08:53:37 AM »
Our condolences and best wishes, Dan.

A life well lived.

What always came through in your posts and messages was the careful and dedicated care that you and your sister gave to Jack as his health and independence deteriorated - never easy, but I am sure made an enormous difference to him.

Take care

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #7 on: September 12, 2015, 09:53:27 AM »
Dan,
You have my email.
I will call to talk when you wish. Just let me know,
All the best to you and your Sister.
John

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #8 on: September 12, 2015, 09:56:14 AM »
I shed a tear or two on your behalf Dan.
A very sad loss, may you have only the best memories.
Julian.

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #9 on: September 12, 2015, 10:45:46 AM »
Dan,

Deepest condolences,


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« Reply #10 on: September 12, 2015, 11:27:35 AM »
Awe Dan what can i say except farewell Jack and keep a place for me up there in heaven. :'(..
he was most certainly one of the good guys he came into my thoughts many a time when i was out on my bike .RIP jack Dan give Denice a big hug from me .

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2015, 02:50:22 PM »
Take care Dan, losing parents is a life changing experience for us all. It's great you had such a strong relationship right to the end and someone to share your passion for bicycles with.
 

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #12 on: September 12, 2015, 03:02:34 PM »
Dan, so sorry about your loss. Your tribute to your dad does justice to a life well lived. My best to you and Denise.  John

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #13 on: September 13, 2015, 03:55:27 AM »
What a wonderful relationship you had with your father, Dan! It really sounds like he made good use of his many years! May his next "place to be" bring him ever greater vistas of joyful adventure! It can't ever be easy to lose someone so close, though. My prayers go out for you and your family.

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Re: Goodbye, Daddy Jack; see you in awhile
« Reply #14 on: September 13, 2015, 01:43:04 PM »
My sincere condolences Dan.

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