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The UK onus on the cyclists, really really REALLY annoys me.
A car is dangerous machinery, hence the requirement for a license.
A helmet is tested for a fall with a speed of 12 miles an hour for a fall of a meter and a half. Not for wrestling with cars.
Now obv. I have lights (legal requirement) + hi-vis for certain weather/unlit roads + I stay out of blindspots + aren't cheeky when filtering. But I do the same in the car. Lights on, don't hang in blindspots, be aware of others, don't be cheeky or speed, it's not worth it.
But somebody dies in a collision between a bike and a car/van you can bet there's lots of post of "Well those cyclists...they jump red lights" (so do a lot of motorists!) and "wear a helmet" (dude, that won't help if your chest is crushed/you end up under a lorry/won't help against concussion even you still need to see a doctor as deceleration/acceleration can't be stopped by a helmet).
Yet...whenever something tragic occurs with driving there's no "but all the drivers". People of course break it down to stereotypes such as "young drivers/male drivers/SUV drivers..." but drivers as a whole don't get lectured on their behavior. And I see some idiot driving sometimes which would wipe out a few people, if the one person didn't keep extra distance. Nearly got wiped out myself too by an idiot. The worst a cyclist does to me in a car is leave a dent, yet we get all the misery heaped onto us.
The UK motorists have decided cyclists are an "out-group" and because we are an "out-group" everything falls on us and it's OK to see us as "cyclists" instead of "fellow road users".
Whereas car users are like other people... so they get the benefit of the doubt and don't get lectures everywhere.
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Ow well one day more people have a car and a bike and then the groups will merge
And we can all moan together about the crap UK roads