Chris,
It's hard to predict rim wear by mileage alone. On one extreme, touring -- even loaded touring -- on flat or gently rolling terrain is very smooth on brakes and rims. At the other extreme, commuting in nasty weather, especially with a loaded bike (cargo, kids...) is bad on brakes and rims. Downhill racers race in muddy conditions and tend to wear brake pads in very few races.
Living the other side of the ocean, I'm not totally familiar with your weather, but riding in light rain, mist or drizel is probably amongst the worst: just enough humidity to lift all the dirt off the road, but not enough to wash it away. Ditto for icy conditions with sand or rock on the road.
I have yet to go through the rims of my tourer, but I use one set of Kool Stop Salmon brake pads per year. There was lots of loaded riding and touring with trailercycle and child trailer, but most of it occured in good or half decent weather. No 60-km ride with the kids during a snow storm or at -20 C. On the other hand, my commuter is used year round (360 days per year, maybe), and the front rim which is 2 years and 6000 km old is about to surrender.
BTW, I always brake with the front brake alone; it's by far the most effective brake. I occasionnaly use the rear brake to slow down in long hills, but I use it so rarely that I don't wear these brake pads.
I'm also a firm believer of Kool Stop Salmon (or dual) brake pads. They don't wear down as fast as Shimano brake pads (how would you compare 1 month to 1 year?), don't squeal (not with v-brakes anyway), have an almost as good performance in foul weather, and I think they don't wear the rims too fast (no grinding noise anyway). No idea if they are sold in U.K. however, but given your weather and that of Northern Europe, they would be highly recommended.
Finally, in terms of rim wear, I read once a recommendation that you should look at the rim face to see if it is concave. If there is a depression of more than 1 mm (not a groove, but a smooth path where the brake pads rub), then you should change the rims. I'd like a second opinion on that, however.