Ha, I didn't mean to set us off on another path to perfection, I sometimes laugh at myself for overdoing it, though I'm greatful to those who make my obsessions seem reasonable!
I've never put a torque wrench on a crank, I don't have one that goes that high, I put a bit of copperslip on and do it up pretty tight. The objective is for it to stay on till it needs to come off, then do so without drama. So far, so good.
Years ago, soon after I built up a bike with a square taper, probably almost two decades ago, I heard a slight squeak as I pedaled. Stopped, tried to find what was loose. I was miles form home. I only had a tiny little multi-tool but it did have an 8mm allen wrench, figured out that one of my crank bolts needed tightening. I had read of a few cases where people rode too many miles with a loose crank and ruined them, so that scared to into doing a better job on that bolt.
Soon after that in 2006 I bought a 2003 Land Rover Disco 2. That came with a receiver hitch from the factory, but mine was first owned by a rental car company. They do not like people to pull trailers, so they pulled off the hitches and discarded them.
So, I had to buy a pretty expensive replacement hitch to bolt to the frame. And that had torque specifications that I wanted to make sure I did it right, so I bought the big torque wrench to install the hitch. I learned that I did not need that torque wrench because lying on my back on the ground trying to tighten the bolts I learned that I did not have enough muscle to reach the required torque levels. But I did the best I could.
So, that is why I use the torque wrench on those bolts on crank arms. I want to do it right, and for another project I had already bought the wrench, all I had to buy for the bikes was an 8mm allen wrench that fit on a half inch drive torque wrench.
There is only one other thing on a bike I am careful on torque. I have a Ritchey Break Away bike, that has a coupler similar in function to an S&S coupler on the downtube. And the coupler has to be tightened to 4 nm of torque, no more, no less. It uses a 4mm allen wrench. So I bought a much smaller torque wrench for that.
Everything else, I do by feel.