I was not supposed to re-use the same washer? I do not think I ever replaced the washer.
It depends on the designer's aim.
When I had my own Honda car service center back in another life long ago, it was standard procedure to replace the crushable aluminum washer on the oil pan drain bolt. At the specified torque, the bolt head actually embedded slightly into the washer and the washer itself deformed slightly into the oil pan's threaded socket opening; all this ensured a tight seal.
I didn't believe it at first, so I conducted some experiments on my own car where I drained the oil, cleaned all traces of oil off the outside of the pan, and then torqued the bolt in place reusing the washer. When I checked back in 20 minutes and wiped the pan with a light colored cloth, there was a slight "mist" of oil 'round the used washer. Overnight, a drop formed at the edge. This happened three times, so I figured Honda knew what they were talking about and always used a fresh crushable aluminum washer with each oil change onmy car as well as all others I serviced. No leaks between changes!
Other makes I've seen used copper, nylon, and even bronze crush washers as well as non-deformible steel.
My family owned Honda cars for about 40 years. Our other vehicles (light trucks and SUVs of various sorts) used V6 and V8 engines with reusable (steel) drain bolt washers. We kept those vehicles a long time also and they never developed leaks 'round their plugs. They did however require use of a sealant. Honda's transmission drain bolts used crushable washers, but their coolant gallery plugs used sealant. The difference depended on how the interface was engineered.
Many drain plugs (both NPT and metric) are subtly tapered (sometimes referred to as a "pipe taper") so when the drain bolt or plug is fully home, an interference fit prevents leakage. I have not yet checked my Rohloff drain plugs during my oil changes (I use a new one each time), but it is likely they are tapered. If it is indeed tapered and is over-torqued, then not only would the plug extend into the hub's interior, the threads could well be enlarged to the largest plug diameter, affecting future sealing.
I eventually fitted oil drain actuator valves (Fram, Femco, Fumoto) to all my vehicles so I never had to remove the drain bolts again. Rohloff's current solution is appropriate to need.
Best,
Dan.