I think it must be wonderful to find a cycling partner or group with the same outlook and aspirations but cycling is one of those pastimes which can also be enjoyed solo.
What Andy said...goes for me. Beautifully phrased, Andy.
Mass rides...scare the daylights out of me. I don't know if it brings out a latent shyness or some irrational fear of falling and being run over by 20,000 tires (some mass rides here'bouts gather upward of 10,000 attendees). Funny...I never had a problem leading tour groups back in the day and would enjoy doing so again. Must be something else, but nah, mass rides hold no appeal for me.
I've tried a few tag-along rides with the local touring group over the years, and generally found them to be unhappy experiences. They didn't hold my same views about the need to stop at stop signs or obey road rules to remain predictable (and alive!) to car drivers, the value of stopping to take a photo or breaking paceline concentration to chat, and I got tired of the ragging-on about my equipment not being the latest on offer by ShimSRAMagnolo or having the lightest bike. I asked myself if I was having fun (no) and decided I was better off on my own.
I really believe there's no bad solo rides, but it would be nice to have the occasional pleasant companion for a ride at any pace or distance; good conversation makes up for a lot and it would be nice to turn to another and say, "Oh, look! Did you see that?!?" for shared experiences. I'll take good craic
any day over sheer endurance, speed, or ability.
Good topic, jags.
All the best,
Dan. (...who is still "looking" for an occasional riding/touring partner, but doesn't mind going alone in the meantime)