My advice - Go with Thorn's recommendation, their experience will be based on thousands of bikes rather than the handful anyone on here will have experienced. Then ride it a thousand miles before changing anything, test riding unfamiliar bike types is not a good way of deciding - the familiar will feel right, even if it isn't.
Perfect fit is important, but with many bike models that can be achieved over more than one size frame. The critical measurements are between the pedals and the saddle, both height and fore/aft. If you find the sweet spot here, then the bars just become somewhere to rest your hands, easily adjusted for personal preference with stem and bar choices.
My own bikes vary from 57 to 61, set up to ride comfortable audaxes on any of them.