...i would have probably killed him on route anyway
I've had to resist that impulse a few times myself, jags.
'Next time I go with someone, I'll ride for the companionship but take enough of my own stuff to break off and go solo if things turn sour. Not a bad backup plan! Might be something for you to consider as well on future trips.
Best,
Dan. (...who very much wants a touring partner, but has had uneven experiences to date)
(...and who is very much looking for'd to Matt's upcoming Adventures!)