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Cycle Tours / Do you match one another's pace when you tour with a friend?
« Last post by Moronic on June 05, 2026, 07:04:29 AM »The attached image shows a touring companion as he recedes into the distance, and while that's perfectly natural on a downhill such as this one it's also what I see most of the time when the two of us are out on a trip. For a while. And then he disappears.
He's stronger than I am, and his touring steed, an ancient aluminium-framed mountain bike with an almost equally ancient plastic saddle, is much less comfortable to ride than my Mercury 650B, which perches me on a perfectly broken-in Brooks B17.
The discrepancy in comfort I offer as an excuse for his preferring to travel much faster than I can. But he doesn't allude to that when he explains himself. He says everyone has their preferred pace, and his just happens to be faster than mine.
Fair enough. But I've toured with other riders whose natural pace was more speedy than than mine, and they've chosen to take it easy so that we can chat. Sure, from time to time they might sprint up a hill while I reached for my granny gear. But where possible we rode side-by-side, remarking on the scenery or carrying on a conversation about whatever topic seemed most entertaining. Similarly, when I'm on a trip with someone who's slower than I am, I tend to match my pace with theirs.
I'd not previously thought much about which style I preferred. But after a recent trip of the former kind, I realised that I do much prefer the latter kind. For me it's more fun to be chatting with someone where effort permits that, and to share in remarking on sights, sounds and smells.
There is also more opportunity for taking in places of interest. "Hey, let's stop at that lookout/rural winery/picnic spot!" is not a possible suggestion when your lead rider has already whizzed past it.
I'm interested to know how fellow Thorn tourists who don't always ride solo prefer their shared tours to go.
To be clear, I'm not looking for anyone to tell me that my preference is the right way to do things: everyone has their own approach to touring, and even when one participant is mainly concerned to make pace there is still the planned lunch stop, and the yarning over dinner at the end of the day. And the leader can choose interesting spots for a shared break: I'm never that far behind.
So this is offered as a discussion for anyone who would like to share some experience. How do you handle pace discrepancies when you're out on the trail?
He's stronger than I am, and his touring steed, an ancient aluminium-framed mountain bike with an almost equally ancient plastic saddle, is much less comfortable to ride than my Mercury 650B, which perches me on a perfectly broken-in Brooks B17.
The discrepancy in comfort I offer as an excuse for his preferring to travel much faster than I can. But he doesn't allude to that when he explains himself. He says everyone has their preferred pace, and his just happens to be faster than mine.
Fair enough. But I've toured with other riders whose natural pace was more speedy than than mine, and they've chosen to take it easy so that we can chat. Sure, from time to time they might sprint up a hill while I reached for my granny gear. But where possible we rode side-by-side, remarking on the scenery or carrying on a conversation about whatever topic seemed most entertaining. Similarly, when I'm on a trip with someone who's slower than I am, I tend to match my pace with theirs.
I'd not previously thought much about which style I preferred. But after a recent trip of the former kind, I realised that I do much prefer the latter kind. For me it's more fun to be chatting with someone where effort permits that, and to share in remarking on sights, sounds and smells.
There is also more opportunity for taking in places of interest. "Hey, let's stop at that lookout/rural winery/picnic spot!" is not a possible suggestion when your lead rider has already whizzed past it.
I'm interested to know how fellow Thorn tourists who don't always ride solo prefer their shared tours to go.
To be clear, I'm not looking for anyone to tell me that my preference is the right way to do things: everyone has their own approach to touring, and even when one participant is mainly concerned to make pace there is still the planned lunch stop, and the yarning over dinner at the end of the day. And the leader can choose interesting spots for a shared break: I'm never that far behind.
So this is offered as a discussion for anyone who would like to share some experience. How do you handle pace discrepancies when you're out on the trail?

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